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Paul and Natalie

Paul and Natalie

Dear Birthmother,

Our family would like to take this time to thank you for viewing our family tree. We hope that you will find our family very loving and caring through our letter and photos. If you have any questions about us feel free to ask the agency. If they can't answer the question we are sure that the agency will contact us so you will get the answer you are looking for. So let us begin our story.

Our names are Paul and Natalie with our son Phillip. We have been married for six years though we have known each other for ten years. Our friendship blossomed into a relationship. Then our relationship grew into a forever bond. In our first couple of years of marriage we turned to fertility treatments to conceive a child. With all the blessings from our family and friends we were able to have our first child named Phillip. A year later we went through fertility treatments again and were unsuccessful. With this we are now turning to adoption to extend our family with yours.

As a family we enjoy going on vacation every year to Wisconsin Dells. Our local treks take us to the museums, parks, and the zoo. We revolve our time around Phillip so that he can experience everything life has to offer. With this in mind not one child in our family will ever be favored more that the other. We will make sure the children in our family experience all the joys of life at the same time.

There are so many reasons why a birthmother gives up her child for adoption. It is a sacrifice that some people don't understand. Though we can tell you that more people understand why people adopt a child. To give that love and care to a child in which they would give to their own. This is the reason why we are choosing adoption. We will feel honored like any other couple when chosen to be the adoptive family of a child.

Paul grew up in a middle class family in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Paul attended the local public grammar school and private catholic high school. After high school he continued his education at the local community college. During college he found his calling in the United States Navy in which he served four years and was honorably discharged. After the navy he continued with college and went back to the job he and left before the navy. Paul is currently with that same company and has been for the past eighteen years with a recent promotion in the last year. Paul's side of the family consists of two loving parents, siblings and a set of grandparents. Paul's brother David is married and has a stepdaughter and a biological child. Paul's sister Jennifer is single and a loving aunt and the godmother of our child.

Natalie grew up in a middle class family in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Natalie attended the local grammar and high school in the area. After high school she attended the community college and worked various jobs until finding a job with the company that she is currently employed with for the past eighteen years. Natalie's side of the family consists of two loving parents, a stepmother, two brothers, and three sisters. Natalie's brother Bill is married and has a son. Natalie's other brother and sisters are still all single.

Our other family members include two dogs Alex and Domino. We also have a cat named Tinkerbelle. Alex and Domino are great dogs very loving and gentle. They love to go for walks around the block or just run around in the backyard. Tinkerbelle is your typical cat, she will come to you when she wants attention or will just find a sunny spot to sleep in when she wants to be left alone.

Open adoption is a choice that just makes sense to us, we want our children to know they are loved my many people and in many different ways. We look forward to our children growing up together and forming that great sibling bond. We believe adoption is the coming together of different families in the love of a single child and we want you to know you will always be a part of our lives. A child can never have too much love.

We hope that as your read about us and look at our pictures you see the love and commitment that exist in our family. If you choose us to be your child's adoptive family we promise that your child will be raised in a loving and nurturing home surrounded by a loving family and many friends. We commit you that we will honestly and lovingly share with your child the love you have shown in creating and adoption plan.

Thank you for the opportunity to introduce ourselves. We hope you find peace and comfort as you consider your options. We are easy to talk with and would welcome the opportunity to get to know you.

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